That is kind of where I am at. Though just in case I am a smidge wrong, I will still vote for Trump with far, wayyyyy far less enthusiasm than I did years ago. He said he was going after the swamp. What "swamp" went to jail? He hired MORE swamp to surround him. He touted his death shots long after Senator Ron Johnson had a panel of injured people from the shot and another panel where doctors and others stated their truth about the Plandemic. He pretended not to hear the rallies from the shot injured and the family and friends that were murdered in our hospitals with remdesivir/vented and other toxic protocols.
He says the things we want to hear and does do a few of those things, but the march to a communist dictatorship continues on with a digital ID and people won't be able to protest at all or their accounts will be frozen like the Canadian truck drivers were. Trump won't stop digital ID. He will even pretend it isn't happening. Just as Harris will get us closer to digital ID. Nothing different between the two.
One of the questions asked was: what happened to your father or her husband? I don't see him in any of the photos or the story. Did he already pass away? Sorry to ask.
That is a complicated part of the story that I am not yet ready to tell. My father is still alive. All I will say is that people react to trauma differently - and some people do not react well.
For his own reasons, My dad was not able to help while my mom was sick.
I am sorry. Sounds like he abandoned her, he simply couldn't help her at all. My guess is she was always the caretaker, and he never could handle taking care of anyone else. some men just shut others out of their lives if they get ill, and your father sounds like he had already separated from your mother before she got ill.
What's very sad is she seems very much alone except for you and her sisters. He is never shown in any of the photos, probably because he wasn't there and didn't want to be, couldn't be part of anyone's support system. I'm sorry. Many men can be like that, they're crippled and only know how to take and when there is nothing for them to take, like they've finished their dinner that was lovingly made for them, they leave without helping to do kitchen clean up because someone else will always do that for them.
I had a similar experience, medical fuck up, turbo cancer & doc insisting my mum had vax even though she was dying and she was gone fast after that. My dad didn’t fancy visiting her cos it was tough on him. Helping too much makes for helpless and it’s a must to stand up to bully’s. Society and the church made a hard life for a lot of women. I miss her so much……
I understand. 40 yrs ago my best girlfriend was diagnosed with liver cancer. She had been happily married for 10 yrs & had 2 children. As her condition worsened, he became more & more angry, maybe fear of being left alone with the kids, maybe angry that she got sick. Men’s coping skills aren’t the same as women’s. He remarried within a few years
Glad to be here, and thanks.
You are such a gifted writer. My heart breaks for you and your family 🥲.
So sorry! I love your honest writing style and the teaser of what comes next
Thank you so much. That means a lot.
That is kind of where I am at. Though just in case I am a smidge wrong, I will still vote for Trump with far, wayyyyy far less enthusiasm than I did years ago. He said he was going after the swamp. What "swamp" went to jail? He hired MORE swamp to surround him. He touted his death shots long after Senator Ron Johnson had a panel of injured people from the shot and another panel where doctors and others stated their truth about the Plandemic. He pretended not to hear the rallies from the shot injured and the family and friends that were murdered in our hospitals with remdesivir/vented and other toxic protocols.
He says the things we want to hear and does do a few of those things, but the march to a communist dictatorship continues on with a digital ID and people won't be able to protest at all or their accounts will be frozen like the Canadian truck drivers were. Trump won't stop digital ID. He will even pretend it isn't happening. Just as Harris will get us closer to digital ID. Nothing different between the two.
My condolences, I have subscribed and have shared a link to your substack, here: https://markcrispinmiller.substack.com/p/richard-simmons-christie-brinkley/comment/52626645
One of the questions asked was: what happened to your father or her husband? I don't see him in any of the photos or the story. Did he already pass away? Sorry to ask.
That is a complicated part of the story that I am not yet ready to tell. My father is still alive. All I will say is that people react to trauma differently - and some people do not react well.
For his own reasons, My dad was not able to help while my mom was sick.
I am sorry. Sounds like he abandoned her, he simply couldn't help her at all. My guess is she was always the caretaker, and he never could handle taking care of anyone else. some men just shut others out of their lives if they get ill, and your father sounds like he had already separated from your mother before she got ill.
What's very sad is she seems very much alone except for you and her sisters. He is never shown in any of the photos, probably because he wasn't there and didn't want to be, couldn't be part of anyone's support system. I'm sorry. Many men can be like that, they're crippled and only know how to take and when there is nothing for them to take, like they've finished their dinner that was lovingly made for them, they leave without helping to do kitchen clean up because someone else will always do that for them.
Eerily perceptive.
I don’t know why my husband’s name appeared. I’m Barbara
I had a similar experience, medical fuck up, turbo cancer & doc insisting my mum had vax even though she was dying and she was gone fast after that. My dad didn’t fancy visiting her cos it was tough on him. Helping too much makes for helpless and it’s a must to stand up to bully’s. Society and the church made a hard life for a lot of women. I miss her so much……
I understand. 40 yrs ago my best girlfriend was diagnosed with liver cancer. She had been happily married for 10 yrs & had 2 children. As her condition worsened, he became more & more angry, maybe fear of being left alone with the kids, maybe angry that she got sick. Men’s coping skills aren’t the same as women’s. He remarried within a few years
I'll share it around
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